Whether Speaker Or his clients or his counselling could not find the discussed characteristics in one woman, but definitely the article aptly speaks of such rare gems, who grows passionately to let others be in passion growing for their own sake. The lines qioted from the article 💯speaks this -

Caring for ourselves gives us a deeper ability to care for others as you can’t pour water out of an empty cup. It expresses that we have standards for the treatment we accept both from ourselves and from a partner, and it empowers us to connect with our own inner-strength as we practice discipline and consistency.