The author has been very much seminal in imaging the sense of bad masculinity in the lines -
"If someone knew which buttons to push, I’d fly off the handle like I tried to open a steel door wired to a power outlet".

While in contrast he has been so well to illustrate with satire many of the missing notions of good masculinity in the section titled in bold - "How To Stand Up for What You Believe In".

Vividly the author has taken up observations to argue - how a masculine profile works best - congrats to author for such implied understanding. 👏👏👏👏