👻🤒I think the writer has yet to cross 30yrs of such state of affairs to sail in ⛵ to cross the most difficult line of criss-crosses of marital alliance which is quite gendered, tendered and rendered with hopeful and hopeless interventions.
Remember the lines from the poem Ancient Mariner - the more inheritance to culture is acknowledged, the more chances of survival.

How does the Mariner feel about the slimy things?
Eventually, this stage of the mariner's curse is lifted after he begins to appreciate the many sea creatures swimming in the water. Despite his cursing them as "slimy things" earlier in the poem, he suddenly sees their true beauty and blesses them ("A spring of love gush'd from my heart, And I bless'd them unaware").